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Intimacy Coach and Marriage Expert

My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of companionship and ongoing stagnation to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement every day.

and I am an Intimate Marriage Expert. 

After twelve years in medicine helping families heal their bodies, I studied the science and art of emotional and sensual connection to help my patients heal their relationships as well.

Are You Ready To Reimagine

Your Relationship?

It’s time for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.

Get started with a free chapter from bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy, by Alexandra Stockwell, MD.

Here’s why Intimacy Coaching matters. 

The key to a fantastic relationship is each partner being comfortable enough to be fully self-expressed, sharing the truth of who they are, and learning to welcome the truth of their partner…
When she has a sparkle in her eyes and feels cherished, knowing he has her back… when he feels respected and his shoulders relax when he walks in the door of their home… everyone is winning.

Work with me

Relationships are the spice of life. The glue that holds us together.
The celebration we all deserve.



are delicious

I’ve spent the last 20 years guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life. As a Physician and an Intimate Marriage Expert, I have applied these same principles to my own marriage of 28 years.

In addition, I’ve coached hundreds of clients, teaching them how to experience aliveness and joy, in everything from the daily grind of running a household, to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom.


Relationship and intimacy coaching is for you when you want to learn new skills in order to deepen your connection with your spouse and experience more emotional, sensual, and/or erotic intimacy. 

With educated, high achieving professionals, this is a sophisticated, nuanced process involving bringing to light the underlying dynamic between you and your spouse, and transforming it through precise, artful guidance that respects the unique circumstances of your marriage. The result is that you enjoy one another more, both in and out of the bedroom.

Therapists often focus on what has happened in the past as a way to improve the present. You discuss how and when your feelings were hurt in order to understand one another better.

In contrast, relationship and intimacy coaching provides a solution oriented approach so you feel seen and heard, confidently deepen connection, and rekindle passion. This results in feeling cherished, respected, and successful in your marriage. 

Couples are often surprised to experience notable improvement after just one session. To completely uplevel the culture of your marriage usually takes 3-6 months, and sometimes longer, depending on the quality of your relationship when you start.

The main criteria is a willingness to learn and a commitment to take action. If you bring those qualities, and Dr. Alexandra accepts you as clients, it will work for you–without exception.

There are many options, depending on the time, energy, and finances you invest to create the relationship you want.

The Intimate Marriage Podcast is a free weekly resource providing lots of valuable content.
Uncompromising Intimacy is Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book on how to rekindle the emotional connection in your relationship (which paves the way for better sex).

The Aligned & Hot Marriage program is a highly effective, transformational, independent study program which will teach you the skills you need to enjoy a juicy, nourishing, intimate, passionate marriage. $599.

Private Relationship and Intimacy Coaching is for educated, high achieving couples who want to experience more intimacy and passion. They know how to problem solve and make things happen in other areas of their lives and want to develop the same competency in addressing issues and challenges in their marriage. Private coaching always begins with an in-depth Initial Consultation, involving an investment of $1000. Ongoing coaching for highly motivated couples is a 5 figure investment resulting in the dismantling of your old patterns and creating new ways of relating that feel authentic, exciting, and singularly suited to both individual’s needs and desires. In the process a joy-filled, passionate legacy is created with both immediate and long term impact for the whole family.

Intimacy coaches assist their clients in addressing attachment concerns, developing skills for openness and vulnerability, and improving their emotional sensitivity. These coaches also guide their clients in increasing their comfort with physical intimacy, including personal self-touch and physical interactions with others.


Get the roadmap for the intimacy you desire by reading the first chapter of my book “Uncompromising Intimacy.”

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