Private Relationship & Intimacy Coaching
Yes, you really can have it all.
You already know how to succeed in your career and other areas of your life.
Now it’s time to put your attention on your marriage.
Intimacy is not something that happens over time.
It's something you choose.
Alexandra will teach you how.
Intimacy is built through specific, learnable behaviors that aren’t modeled in most homes, aren’t taught in school or in the kind of self-help therapy that focuses on communication tactics alone.
What Alexandra teaches is different. It starts with learning to notice what is happening inside you, and expressing that in a way your partner can receive, using everyday interactions to cultivate connection so you both feel seen and heard, respected and cherished.
Ways to work with Alexandra
Aligned & Hot Marriage
For couples committed to their marriage and ready to move beyond the dissatisfaction most people accept as normal. A structured, online program to deepen emotional intimacy, reconnect, and reignite the passion that has eroded over time.
Desires
For women who sense something is missing but struggle to name it, or know what they want but hesitate to say so. An online course that helps you get clear on your desires and develop the confidence to express them.
How to Ask your Woman for Sex
(so she's more likely to say yes)
This recorded, online masterclass for educated, successful men gives you the tools to overcome your fear of rejection and initiate with confidence. It includes game-changing lessons for men wanting to invite their women to connect physically in ways that feel good for both of them.
Intimate Connection App
For individuals and couples in a committed relationship, this interactive app creates a customized curriculum, based on your desires, goals, and the challenges you face. In bite sized lessons, you’ll learn how to improve communication, rediscover fun, express your desires, and amplify sensual connection.
Private Relationship & Intimacy Coaching
For high-achieving couples who want direct, personalized guidance. Private coaching with Alexandra is a customized process that dismantles old patterns so you enjoy new ways of relating that are genuine, intimate and built to last.
Initiating
a live online group coaching program for educated, successful men who want More, and Better, Sex
- Five week program for professional men wanting to be more confident initiating sex with their wives
- Next cohort begins February 2027
Marital Pleasure for Women
a live online group coaching program for busy high-achieving women who want to feel alive in life (and in the bedroom).
- Six week program for professional women wanting to unlock more joy and pleasure in their marriage
- Begins in April 2027–join the waitlist today!
Couples Retreats with
Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Step away from your busy life and reset your relationship!
Sign up for an immersive experience to uplevel communication, enhance intimacy, and reignite passion.
Choose to participate in a group retreat with other couples, or a private retreat just for two.
Uncompromising Intimacy
By Alexandra Stockwell, MD
A practical, perspective-shifting guide for couples who want to go beyond a functional companionship. In this book, Alexandra describes the key to a connected, passionate partnership is the willingness to be fully yourself, and genuinely welcome the same from your partner. A place to start the work, or deepen it.
“Alexandra’s Aligned & Hot Marriage program called to me because it spoke to a continued issue that weighed heavily on me. My marriage was rock solid at its foundation but the physical passion we once shared for one another had softened. I was tired of honoring excuses and I wanted it back. Through Alexandra’s guidance, we’ve found new ways of communicating that allow us more space both as a couple and as individuals. The freedom we have found to enjoy one another more deeply is wonderful! I would recommend this program to anyone who knows their partnership has room for improvement, especially if you miss the fresh passion of when things were shiny + new.”
"With Dr. Alexandra's guidance, my husband and I have more connection, understanding, and love than ever before. I never could have imagined what would unfold, and how I would become a more powerful version of ME in the process. I wish every couple could experience what she offers!"
“Dr. Alexandra is an excellent listener with an incredible ability to tune into the issue at hand and turn down the volume on the problem. When she coached my partner and I, we both felt seen and heard, and thankfully, she was able to take it one issue at a time, so we never felt overwhelmed.
What’s more, she gently teased out our deeper issues and worded them in a way that opened us up to receiving guidance on how to move forward. Simple, direct, and solid is how I would describe her. In other words, Alexandra rocks!”
“For much of our relationship, we simply lived our lives together without putting much thought into why we react the way we do toward the things that are annoying, or those that are great.
The Aligned & Hot Marriage program called to me because it inspired Greg and I to spend time focused on our relationship, learning how we react and respond to one another, and understanding what makes us tick. (And that’s translated into the bedroom too!) We really are so much closer now, and more collaborative.
"Through Alexandra's guidance and support we have already progressed more in a few weeks than in our 4 years together.”
Uncompromising Intimacy
by Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Stop compromising–it won’t help!
Read my book to discover the 6 keys to create a hot, passionate, intimate relationship with your spouse.
Meet Dr. Alexandra
Alexandra Stockwell, MD, aka “The Intimacy Doctor,” is widely known for her ability to catalyze immediate and profound shifts in high achieving couples who want it all–genuine emotional connection, sensual passion, and erotic intimacy.
A physician coach and Intimate Marriage Expert, Alexandra is the best-selling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, as well as a wife of over 30 years and a mother of 4. Couples who work with her discover the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success isn’t compromise–it’s being unwilling to compromise–because when both people feel free to be themselves, the relationship is juicy, erotically alive, and deeply nourishing.
For over 20 years Alexandra has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of their relationship: from the daily grind of running a household, to intimate communication and ecstatic experiences in the bedroom–all while achieving extraordinary professional results. High performing individuals who are successful in their careers (but can’t say the same for their romantic relationships) work with her to create the quality of relationship they long for. She offers private relationship and intimacy coaching, group programs, and independent study courses.
Alexandra has been featured in the New York Times, Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, USAToday, Cosmopolitan, Business Insider, thriveglobal, mindbodygreen, FOX NEWS NYC, and LA Weekly Magazine named her one of the “Top 10 Dating and Relationship Experts to Watch in 2023.”